Someone needs to get a hold of tailor swift's new song before she destroys the dreams and aspirations of every teenage girl in the world.
There is a reason why the guy in the song is dating the girl in the high heels, it's because she looks like this
And you look like this
Now if it isn't clear by this point, let me spell it out. It doesn't matter if you have a connection with the guy or not. If you want a man, you better start strutting, get a boob job, and act like a total slut. Flashing him has also proven to increase the chance of a relationship by 100%.
You should realize that the entire premise of the song, that " what you are looking for has been here the whole time" is the equivalent of saying that you are a bag of potatoes. If he doesn't feel like sticking his manhood into you you'll never get him.